Entry 2 | Pursuit of happiness

 Leaving marks on a random Wednesday hahah tiber kan. Takde apa sangat pon just, I felt like my brain was saying something sagacious earlier and I thought why not share it here. So it went a lil bit something like this:

"just because it works for someone else, doesn't mean it will also work for you, and if it doesn't work for you, it doesn't mean that you're a failure"

pehh cool hahaha.

Ok so from my point of view, and talking based on the topic of happiness, I feel like most people these days haven't found their own happiness. Like, they haven't found their OWN ways of making themselves happy. Ok like for example, when you see someone on social media being happy by doing this and that, spending their money on traveling, buying cameras (idk I just throw this in), talking to random people and stuff. Like, those stuff, even if you try and follow them exactly, it doesn't mean that you'll get or experience the same happiness as them.

You can't just follow blindly what others are doing and expect to get the same result. Maybe, you know, maybe, for you, your way of happiness is rather simple. Maybe, you're the type to experience happiness from small things like getting to sleep early, watching your favorite dramas while all cuddled up on your bed, watching random funny memes, and maybe as simple as watching the blue sky.

And what I'm tryna highlight here is, don't feel as if you're a failure just because you don't get the same good result that that people are getting by doing the stuff that they're doing. Got what I mean? hahaha. Do not force yourself to follow what others are doing just because you see and feel like "oh if it works for them, it'll work for me too", no bruh. na-uh. It's you and your life. If getting up early on the weekend is what's making them happy but it doesn't work for you, then screw it. Wake up late! Do that if that makes you happy. Like, why are you using the same happiness ruler as them? Let us all buy our own rulers okay?

Yes, those stuff on social media looks exceptionally trustworthy but hey, is that you tho? Does doing those stuff make you feel like you? I always remember this, "your happiness starts with you", so go make your own happiness. If it's simple, then be it. What? your ways look lame? Your ways don't look as fancy as them? Girl, who are you living for? Who are you trying to impress? No one right? Exactly. So go pursue your own ways of finding your happiness in life. You can do this! WE can do this!

Oh um just a teeny tiny reminder from me, sometimes do put yourself first. Please, think and love YOU first. If it means being selfish, then be it. 💖